Contents include:

• Table of ContentsIntroductionIndex of Handouts, Worksheets and Special Items…………………………………… p. 7
• My Story and the Story of New Hope………………………………………………………… p. 9
  1. Getting Started…………………………………………………………………………….. p. 13
  2. The Six Dailies…………………………………………………………………………….. p. 29
  3. A Road & Two Ditches………………………………………………………………… p. 59
  4. How Did I Get Here?……………………………………………………………………. p. 89
  5. The Fellowship Of The Forgiven………………………………………………….. p. 105
  6. Motivations, Consequences & Rewards………………………………………. p. 117
  7. Personal Boundaries……………………………………………………………………. p. 125
  8. Personal Recovery Plan………………………………………………………………. p. 145
  9. Masturbation………………………………………………………………………………… p. 153
  10. Abstaining From Masturbation…………………………………………………….. p. 159
  11. Same Gender Attractions…………………………………………………………….. p. 179
  12. Attachment…………………………………………………………………………………… p. 189
  13. The Immanuel Process………………………………………………………………… p. 201
  14. Telling Your Wife About Your Struggle………………………………………… p. 211
  15. Telling Others About Your Struggle……………………………………………… p. 217
  16. Recovery With Your Wife Part I: The Boy And The Lion……………… p. 221
  17. Recovery With Your Wife Part II: “His Reality—Her Reality”……….. p. 233
  18. Recovery With Your Wife Part III: “What Can I Do?”……………………. p. 241
  19. Recovery With Your Wife Part IV: “What About Sex?”…………………. p. 253
  20. Holidays, Helladays & Other Joyous Family Occasions………………. p. 261

  Conclusion

  Where Do I Go From Here?………………………………………………………………………. p. 271

   

   

  Index of Handouts, Worksheets & Special Items

   

   

   

  Sexual Addiction Screening Test………………………………………………………………. p. 23

  Internet Sexual Addiction Screening Test…………………………………………………. p. 24

  A Covenant To Contend……………………………………………………………………………. p. 26

  Legal Issues……………………………………………………………………………………………… p. 27

  Who Is She To Me?…………………………………………………………………………………… p. 36

  Appreciation Wall………………………………………………………………………………………. p. 45

  Phone Call Tips & Procedures………………………………………………………………….. p. 46

  Sexual Integrity Meeting Agenda………………………………………………………………. p. 49

  Three Circles Plan…………………………………………………………………………………….. p. 51

  Recovery Goals………………………………………………………………………………………… p. 54

  Sponsor Guidelines…………………………………………………………………………………… p. 55

  Resources For Pornography & Sexual Addiction………………………………………. p. 56

  90 Day Checklist……………………………………………………………………………………….. p. 57

  Breaking Sexual Bonds Prayer…………………………………………………………………. p. 68

  My Identity In Christ…………………………………………………………………………………… p. 72

  Sexual History Inventory……………………………………………………………………………. p. 74

  Using Outside Counselors For Sexual History Inventory…………………………… p. 85

  Post Affair Safety Plan………………………………………………………………………………. p. 86

  Definitions Of Typical Wounds………………………………………………………………….. p. 102

  Suggestions For Building Joy Strength……………………………………………………… p. 115

  Recovery In Seven Days: A Parable…………………………………………………………. p. 117

  Defining Slips & Crashes…………………………………………………………………………… p. 121

  Boundary Worksheets……………………………………………………………………………….. p. 130

  Personal Recovery Plan (Blank Summary)……………………………………………….. p. 149

  “Goodbye My Old Friend”………………………………………………………………………….. p. 168

  Writing Your Story…………………………………………………………………………………….. p. 200

  Encountering Jesus In A Strip Club…………………………………………………………… p. 204

  Immanuel Prayer Journaling (One Page Guide)……………………………………….. p. 210

  The “Secret Sexual Basement”…………………………………………………………………. p. 241

  Recovery Meetings With your Spouse………………………………………………………. p. 246

  Integrity Abuse Behavior Lists…………………………………………………………………… p. 248